Monthly Archive: July 2018


When is Flirting OK and When is it Cheating?

Flirting is a powerful form of communication, but like all power, it can be used for good or ill. When is flirting OK and When is it cheating? Flirting is OK when the other person appreciates it and no one gets hurt. The more that flirting hurts others, even third parties, the more dangerous it is. When married people flirt for the purpose of seeking a new romantic or sexual...


How Far Is Too Far (and what you can do about it)

In the old days it was simple; kissing was mostly OK and everything else had to wait for marriage. This once reliable standard has been replaced by the maxim: “If it feels good, do it”. Unfortunately, this new standard leads to a lot of heartaches and personal destruction. Many now ask, “How far is too far?” These days, everyone follows their own moral standard for the appropriate level of sexual...